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Title: U 4got 2 write me...
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Who I Am:
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So it’s me and I am totally redoing my whole ad.... I was watching this show on TLC and it was a dating show that these middle aged people are a part of... So as I was watching I thought about how they were responding to each other on the first and second date. So through out the show it dawned on me that my ad is all wrong(I was totally missing the point) on what type of guy I am as in the types of situations I have encountered with relationships and how I am with kids....
Well as stated in my profile I have no kids of my own and with just that someone like you with kids would pass me by... Without knowing that I was in a relationship with a woman that had three girls... They really took to me right from the get go, I was nice and acted like their second father by reading them bedtime stories and spending time with them. Taking them too the park to play and setting out front or outback with them as they played in the yard. I never took my eye off of them.
I fixed them three meals a day and did the laundry and did everything, basically I was a Mr mom until she got off work. I even picked them up for school and helped them with their homework...
Now for the sad ending to that relationship, We had differences because she wanted to work and not have a sitter for them because she felt it wasn’t good for a stranger to watch them. Well I just didn’t feel it was 50/50 at the time so I moved back home. I miss that part of my life more than ever I miss the girls a lot they really took to me well.
So that’s what I missed in my profile a part of me that I have always wanted is to meet someone with kids that I could be a role model in their lives as well.
Besides that I work full time and live a fairly low key life style, not into the drinking or doing my thing I am looking for someone that we can do things together or as a family unit.
I’m a great listener and like a lot of openness and truth and a lot of laughter. I know with working full time it’s hard to find the time for anything, with me it’s the little thing’s in life that stand out. Like playing a board game with a child or taking 30 minutes out of your day to take them to the park or read them a story.
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I'm Looking for:
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Looking for a girl that will meet me 50/50 on thing’s like helping out around the house or just having the understanding for when I can’t do something or be there to help out. I might be working late or at a meeting and she would have to make sure the kids are tended to and in bed for school the next day.
She would have to have a logical and funny side about her, life is frustrating and to serious most of the time. So to have that side where you are laughing together or as a family then that makes up for the sweat and tears.
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